19 Best Sex Toys for Couples in 2024, REALLY Tested! [VIDEO]

Featured imageFor the longest time, sex toys were reserved for single men and women. But did you know today there are many sex toys for couples? Whether you’re into a long-distance relationship or want to spice up a stale marriage, there’s something for everybody.

“Of course, bringing something new into the bedroom might be uncomfortable at first, but that’s why you have to communicate with your partner and get consent,” says Rachel Sommer, Ph.D., a certified sexologist, sex educator, and relationship expert. “Talk to her/him/them about why you think a sex toy is a great idea for your relationship and make a decision together. Also, you should buy it together.”

Rachel helped us pick the 19 best sex toys for couples that spice up the sex life. Most importantly, they are all made from non-toxic and non-porous materials; hence they are safe to use.

Key Takeaways

Best Overall: ONYX+ & Pearl2
Kiiroo Couple SetKiiro Onyx+ and Pearl 2 is my favorite sex toy kit for long-distance couples. You can connect them via an app to share the sensations simultaneously. A buzz in the G-spot vibrator translates into a stroke on the masturbator, and vice versa.


Budget Pick: We-Vibe Touch X
We-Vibe Touch XWe-Vibe Touch X is my favorite pick if you’re looking for an affordable and beginner-friendly couple sex toy. The couples vibrator is small, discreet, well-made with velvety silicone, and only costs you $99.


Couples Vibe: We-Vibe Moxie
We-Vibe MoxieWe-Vibe Moxie is a fantastic panty vibrator for public play. The wearable vibrator is made from soft silicone, has 10 vibration functions to explore, and can be controlled with the free We-Connect app or a handy remote controller.


Sex Wedge: Liberator Combo
Liberator Wedge Ramp ComboLiberator Wedge/Ramp Combo is my favorite sex furniture. Besides creating better access to challenging sex positions, the wedge and ramp combo prolongs oral sex without having a sore neck. It’s also an excellent help for people with mobility issues.


Why You Should Trust Us

Rachel SommerHi I am Rachel Sommer. Before I started My Sex Toy Guide in 2016, I was frustrated at the lack of a diverse selection of sexual health and wellness information on the internet. At the time, most sites were either a ‘women-only’ affair or extremely limited in the quality and quantity of available info.

Over the years, we have brought on board some of the best sex experts across the globe to merge the gap. Most importantly, we appreciate the beauty of diversity, and our team comprises people with different beliefs, expertise, and experiences.

 


1. Kiiroo ONYX+ and Pearl2 Couples Kit: Best For Long-Distance Relationships

Kiiroo ONYX+ and Pearl2 Couples Kit

Kiiroo ONYX+ is a more compact and well-designed Kiiro Keon substitute. And while the male masturbator might not be the quietest on the list, I loved the unique masturbation sleeve design with 10 contracting rings that simulate oral sex.

Unlike most male masturbators, the Onyx+ is designed to make side-to-side movements and up and down strokes at the same time, making for a realistic yet intense sexual experience. And with a top speed of 140 strokes in a minute, things can move from subtle to explosive in a matter of seconds.

I also liked that Kiiro offers two-sized sleeves – regular and tight-fitting- to meet your specific needs. The standard sleeve fits average guys (4.59″ +) circumference, with the tight fit sleeve is perfect for below-average guys (less than 4.59″).

Kiiroo Couple Set

You can connect the penis massager to Pearl 2 via an app to share the sensations simultaneously. A buzz in the G-spot vibrator translates into a stroke on the masturbator. In addition, both the penis owner and vagina owner can enjoy interactive porn and games, rendering the couple’s kit ideal for partnered and solo sex. Sweet!

The Onyx+ has three vibration intensities, while the Pearl vibrator has nine vibration settings, rendering the kit an exploration hub. And with a full hour of playtime on a full charge for both sex toys, you have enough time to get your partner drooling.

Overall, Kiiro Onyx+ and Pearl 2 is the best sex toy for couples in long-distance relationships. The sex toys are well-made, and setting up is straightforward. More so, the combo connects to VR porn content for complete immersion.

Pro Tip: Kiiroo sells couple bundles for lesbian, non-binary, and gay couples. Hence, it’s suitable for all genders!

If you want to see how the movements are synchronized between the two devices, please check out our video below:

Check out this article for more info about long-distance sex toys!

Onyx+ Features:

  • Material: ABS, POM
  • Insertable Length: 6.5″
  • Canal Diameter: 1.5″
  • Charging: 4 hours
  • Output: 1 hour

Pearl2 Features:

  • Material: Silicone, ABS
  • Insertable Length: 5.25″
  • Diameter: 1.125″ (shaft)
  • Charging: 2 hours
  • Output: 1 hour

Pros:

  • The best couple’s kit for long-distance relationships.
  • Compact and well-made male masturbator.
  • Multiple vibration patterns for untamed G-spot massage.
  • Durable silicone and ABS plastic materials.
  • Both toys are USB-rechargeable.
  • VR compatibility for extra immersion.

Cons:

  • The Onyx+ takes forever to charge – 4 hours.
  • The set is expensive – $289.

Update: Seeing the positive response, we went out of our way to negotiate a special deal with Kiiroo for you! If you buy the couple set using the Kiiroo link below, you get a 10% discount at checkout!

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2. We-Vibe Touch X: Best For Beginners & Budget Seekers

We-Vibe Touch X in a bowl of blueberries

As an upgrade to the original Touch, the inexpensive We-Vibe Touch X boasts a longer and wider body to cover the clitoris in its entirety. I especially liked the curved body and tapered tip, making clitoral stimulation straightforward.

The vibe is small, easy-to-use, and affordable, three features beginners will appreciate. And with 7 vibration settings and 8 intensity levels, there’s a lot to explore!

In addition, the small size makes it easy to use the clit vibrator during coupled sex. And although the central button placement can be a pain in the ass during solo use, your partner can easily reach them for you.

The Touch X packaging

I really liked the sleek yet laid-back packaging the vibrator comes in – it’s perfect for gifting.

During my review, I found that the waterproof vibe is perfect for bath and shower play. It also comes with a USB-rechargeable battery with an impressive two hours of rumbles.

So, if you’re looking for a cheap and beginner-friendly couple sex toy, We-Vibe Touch X is a perfect choice. The couples vibe is small, discreet, well-made with velvety silicone, and only costs you $99.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:

You can read our complete We-Vibe Touch review here.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: 4″
  • Girth: 5.25″
  • Charging: 1.5 hours
  • Output: 2 hours

Pros:

  • The small, compact size is beginner-friendly.
  • Relatively affordable for a vibrating couple’s clit stimulator.
  • Velvety silicone feels great against the skin.
  • A curved body and tapered tip are great for clitoral targeting.
  • You can use the multi-purpose design for all kinds of sex play.
  • Completely waterproof and USB-rechargeable.

Cons:

  • It can be noisy in high settings.
  • The deep vibrations can numb your fingers and palm, especially after extended use.

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3. We-Vibe Moxie: Best For Public Play

We-Vibe Moxie with the remote control

We Vibe Moxie is the perfect panty vibrator for kinky couples obsessed with public play. Unlike most panty vibrators on the market, it comes with a handy magnetic clip that helps keep it in place in your underwear for comfortable extended wear. It’s also relatively quiet, making it perfect for public play.

This small yet powerful public clitoral vibrator is compatible with the free We-Connect app, rendering it perfect for long-distance couples. And for people living together, you can also use the wireless remote control to regulate the 10 vibration functions.

Moxie with the iPhone app

The smartphone app opens a world of new possibilities with more patterns and unprecedented partner control.

In addition, the clit vibrator has a powerful rechargeable battery with a maximum of two hours of output. And being waterproof, raunchy sessions in the shower are a must.

Overall, We-Vibe Moxie is a tremendous panty vibrator for remote couple’s play. The wearable vibrator is made from soft silicone, has 10 vibration functions to explore, and can be controlled with the free We-Connect app or a handy remote controller.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:

For more information about public vibrators, please read this guide.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: 3.5″
  • Girth: 3″
  • Charging: 1.5 hours
  • Output: 2 hours

Pros:

  • The sleek and discreet design is perfect for public play.
  • Impressive 10-function clit vibrator.
  • Intuitive – mobile app and wireless remote controller.
  • Waterproof and USB-rechargeable with 2 hours output.
  • It comes with a satin bag and a 2ml We-Vibe lube sample.
  • Perfect choice for long-distance couples.

Cons:

  • Some people may find it pricey – $129.99.
  • The app disconnects now and then.

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4. Atom Plus Lux by Hot Octopuss: A Great Cock Ring

Hot Octopuss Atom Plus Lux

Hot Octopuss vibrating cock ring is the best cock ring for couples! Like the original Atom Plus, the dick ring features two motors to spread the rumbles to the perineum and base of the penis for exquisitely blended pleasure. The upgrade, however, comes with a wireless remote controller, making it easy to cycle through the 5 vibration modes and speeds.

Notably, the cock ring’s large contact area adds thrill to penetrative vaginal sex. Whether vaginal or anal penetration, it feels more exciting with the massive ring. The extended hood rests on the clit during sex, providing much-needed extra clitoral stimulation.

The Atom Plus Lux material is very bendable

During our testing, we found that the velvety silicone body feels great against the skin, which is vital because most people wear a vibrating penis ring for extended periods. 

My only concern is the lazy 40 minutes output. Many guys wear a vibrating ring for longer than forty minutes, so I think Hot Octopus can do better on this front.

Overall, Atom Plus Lux is our favorite vibrating cock ring for partner sex. With two powerful motors, multiple settings, and a tremendous wireless remote control, the cock ring is perfect for the job. In addition, the motor on the extended hood can bring a female partner to orgasm with the contagious rumbles. And for the explorers, try it in the shower or bath and enjoy the bliss that comes with ‘drippy’ sex.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:

Check out this article to read more about cock rings.

  • Material: Silicone, ABS
  • Length: 4.72″
  • Diameter: 2.36″
  • Charging: 2 hours
  • Output: 40 minutes

Pros:

  • One of the best cock rings on the market today.
  • Two motors deliver blended pleasure.
  • Waterproof velvety silicone and sturdy ABS materials.
  • Multiple vibration settings for maximum exploration.
  • Powerful vibrating cock ring.
  • An extended hood enhances clitoral stimulation.
  • Handy wireless remote controller.
  • Exciting perineum stimulation.

Cons:

  • Two hours of charging in exchange for 40 minutes of output is borderline terrible.
  • It’s expensive – $129.95.

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5. Magic Wand Rechargeable: Wand Vibrator For Couples

Magic Wand Rechargable

The Hitachi Magic Wand Rechargeable is at the top of couple wand vibrators. Besides the rigid ABS body, I love the semi-flexible neck that holds the plush bulbous head in place. The combination of a posable neck and a soft head makes for powerful clitoral orgasms.

I was hesitant because the magic wand massager has limited power settings, and I like exploring numerous options. However, with the highest setting churning out 6,300 RPM, the vibrator is impressive. In addition, the three-button control interface makes the classic vibrator ideal for everyone, including first-timers.

Closeup of the Magic Wand silicone head

During my review, I found the handheld vibrator was easy to clean and maintain. And even with the plush head cover, a simple rinse with a clean cloth does the job.

Overall, the strongest couple’s sex toy on the market is the Magic Wand Rechargeable. The wand-style vibrator has a powerful motor, a three-button control interface, and an impressive top speed of 6,300 RPM. You can read more reviews here.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:

Click here for my complete Magic Wand review. And you can find our favorite wand attachments in this article.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: 12.5″
  • Girth 7.75″

Pros:

  • Powerful and easy-to-use clit stimulator.
  • The plush cover feels great against the skin.
  • Durable silicone and ABS plastic materials.
  • It’s ideal for more experienced users.
  • The posable neck promotes targeted stimulation.

Cons:

  • An expensive piece of equipment at $149.99
  • Not waterproof
  • It looks a bit old-fashioned
  • The Magic Wand is noisy.
  • Beginners may find it a little too powerful (using it over a panty or thin piece of clothing could help).

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6. Dame Eva: Best For Penetrative Sex

Dame Eva ii

Formerly known as Eva II, this sleek sex toy reminded me of Dame Fin, the finger vibrator from Dame Products. And although they’re from the same company, the mode of operation is a little different. Dame Eva doesn’t use your fingers but instead two wings inserted in each of your labia, so it nestles in during vaginal sexual intercourse.

This wearable hands-free vibe has a slim design perfect for coupled sex. It rests in the vagina, inducing three vibration modes so both partners can enjoy the extra buzz. And with a 1.3″ body, the Eva will fit most people.

I especially liked the simple single-button control pad that helps cycle through the settings, with each press moving from the first (lowest) to the third (highest).

The Dame Eva charging base

The silicone sex toy comes in a handy storage bag and a charging dock you can use with an ordinary USB cable

The only drawback is the vibration power which may not be enough for experienced users. Although it might not be the most potent clit vibrator, it delivers a decent buzz, especially in high settings.

Overall, Dame Eva is a sleek clit vibrator you can use during vaginal penetration. Its soft silicone finish, three rumbly settings, and flexible wings make it a perfect clitoral sex toy.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unpacking and review summary video below:

Please read our complete Dame Eva II review here.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: 1.7″
  • Diameter: 3.3″, 3.4″ (wings included)
  • Charging: 4 hours
  • Output: 1 hour

Pros:

  • Squishy and body-safe silicone material.
  • Compact and well-made clit vibrator.
  • Three vibration settings with single-button control.
  • It’s USB-rechargeable with 60 minutes output.
  • The waterproof design renders it bath-ready.
  • It’s designed by one of the most sex-positive companies out there.

Cons:

  • Experienced users may find the buzz to be weak.
  • It doesn’t stay put in all positions.

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7. Hot Octopuss Kurve: Best For G-Spot Stimulations

Hot Octopuss Kurve

Hot Octopuss Kurve is the perfect choice for internal stimulation fans, and I especially liked the broad rounded head with a soft silicone tip for pinpoint G-spot targeting. Plus, with a girthy 1.6″ shaft, the G-spot vibrator feels incredible all the way, and you can feel it travel through until it hits your sweet spots.

Another outstanding feature was the dual motors with the treble buried under the tip for mellow G-spot orgasm and the base motor in the body, making for blended head-to-toe sensations.

Hot Octopuss Kurve

The vibrator has a uniquely curved body, making it easy to target your innermost erogenous zones.

Notably, you can regulate the vibrations independently, so you can choose how much of the buzz and rumbly vibrations to have – sincerely one of the most amazing experiences so far!

Overall, this year’s best G-spot vibrator for couples is Hot Octopuss Kurve. It’s a sensually curved G-spot stimulator with two motors for utmost efficiency and a smooth silicone body that feels great against the vaginal walls. The rounded and slightly pointed head targets the G-spot perfectly for mellow yet resonant orgasms.

Pro Tip: Add a clitoral vibrator if you need both internal and external stimulation to climax.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unpacking and review summary video below:

We have a more detailed review of the Kurve here.

  • Material: Silicone, ABS
  • Length: 7.6″
  • Diameter: 1.6″
  • Charging: 2 hours
  • Output: 2 hours

Pros:

  • Contoured design with a soft gel rounded tip for targeted G-spot stimulation.
  • Body-safe silicone and ABS materials.
  • Innovative treble and base motor design.
  • Rechargeable and waterproof G-spot vibrator.
  • Five vibration modes with unlimited customization.
  • The raised buttons are easy to locate.

Cons:

  • Multiple buttons – newbies may find it hard to catch up.

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8. Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo: Best Sex Furniture For Couples

Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo

The Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo is a piece of sex furniture that couples can use to revive their sex lives. The 2-in-1 design means you can use the wedge and ramp together or independently, making it highly versatile. In addition, the pieces are held together using interlocking microfiber threads to avoid slipping. It’s very sturdy!

My standout feature was the high-density foam used on both sex pillows. The Liberator ramp feels comfortable enough to take pressure off your joints and provide an inclined lounger for easy access to your partner’s erogenous zones (inner thighs, nipples, etc.) and deeper penetration during sex.

Liberator Combo unzipped showing the two materials

The sex furniture’s plush cover is machine washable. In addition, there’s a moisture-resistant liner that helps to keep body fluids and water away.

By supporting your upper body, these sex pillows simplify positions like the doggy style as one partner rests comfortably while the other penetrates from the back. The combo promotes extended couple play, whether penis-to-vagina sex or pegging.

So, if you’re looking for the best sex furniture for couples, Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo is our favorite option. Besides creating better access and simplifying ‘difficult’ sex positions, the wedge and ramp combo prolongs oral sex without having a sore neck. They are also a great help for people with disabilities.

Note: The Liberator Lamp is available in three sizes to fit different body types.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:

To learn more about sex wedges, please read this guide.

  • Material: Microfiber, Polyurethane Foam
  • Dimensions: Small32″x 24″x 10″, Regular – 34″x 24″x 12″

Pros:

  • You can use the multi-purpose sex pillows together or independently.
  • Comfortable high-density foam.
  • Plush microfiber feels great against bare skin.
  • The softcover is machine-washable.
  • Patented interlocking threads keep the shapes stuck together.
  • It provides easy access while supporting your partner’s body for prolonged lovemaking.

Cons:

  • The sex furniture is expensive – $279.

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9. b-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite: Best Anal Toy For Couples

b-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite

b-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite is the best anal sex toy for couples. Notably, b-Vibe ignored the stereotype that butt plugs are only meant for prostate owners. No! It’s for everyone to enjoy the excitement around backdoor stimulation.

An outstanding feature I fell in love with was the rimming action mimicking ass licking. You see, the butt plug has a network of swirling neck beads at the neck of the plug that targets the numerous nerve endings in your asshole. And with 7 vibration and rotating patterns, each with 6 intensity levels, anal play feels fantastic!

b-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite with the remote control

I also liked the included wireless remote control making it easy to cycle through the settings. Unlike most anal toys, this one is perfect for couples because your partner can regulate the rumbles while you enjoy toe-curling sensations.

Thanks to the tapered design that simplifies insertion, the butt plug is ideal for beginners, even if it’s your first time. It’s also travel-friendly and comes with a convenient storage case and travel lock feature to prevent accidental turn-ons.

So, if you’re looking for a beginner-friendly butt plug for couples, b-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite is perfect. Everything from the wireless remote control to the multiple rimming and vibration patterns makes it a standout pick. The vibrating plug is also USB-rechargeable with up to 60 minutes of uninterrupted play.

Pro Tip: Experienced players can try the Rimming Plug 2, Rimming Plug XL, or one of the company’s many anal beads.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:

This article has more butt plug reviews. And you can read our comprehensive review of the rimming plug in this article.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Insertable Length: 3.9″
  • Diameter: 1.4″ (shaft), 1″ (neck)
  • Charging: 2 hours
  • Output: 1 hour

Pros:

  • The petite, tapered design is ideal for everyday anal stimulation.
  • The intuitive remote control renders it perfect for partner play.
  • Seamless silicone is soft to touch.
  • It’s USB-rechargeable.
  • The whirling beads imitate ass licking – rimming.
  • It’s easy to clean.

Cons:

  • Experienced users may find it underwhelming.
  • The butt plug is not entirely waterproof but instead splashproof.

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10. Lovehoney Desire Luxury: Best For Pegging Play

Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On

Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On is a double-ended strap-on with everything needed to induce thrill into your sex life. Importantly, it’s designed to pleasure both the wearer and receiver with a 5″ long shaft and a wearable 4.5″ bulb.

Notably, the elongated shaft is a little girthy (4.25″) and features a realistic head and a wavy texture to enhance internal stimulation for the receiver. The shaft is also slightly curved to simplify P-spot or G-spot targeting. On the other hand, the bulb massages the wearer’s vaginal walls while a raised section at the base of the shaft stimulates the clitoris for blended pleasure.

Closeup of the Desire Luxury controls

The manual controls on the strapless dildo are a bit difficult to reach in the heat of the action, but the remote control is an excellent alternative.

I also liked the powerful motor that churns out 12 levels of intensity and 8 patterns. It wasn’t the most sensual strap-on for me, but Tim had an exciting time during pegging. According to him, he felt the vibrations to the deepest nerve, and the wavy texture felt incredible. It’s safe to say he enjoyed P-spot stimulation!

Finally, the waterproof sex toy is perfect for aquatic adventure and shower sex. And with the handy remote control, the play doesn’t have to stop to regulate the settings.

Overall, Lovehoney Desire Luxury is the best strap-on for straight and lesbian couples. Everything from the curved and tapered design to the girthy and wavy shaft and 12-function motor makes it great for strap-on play. The double-ended vibrator even comes with a wireless three-button controller for exciting couple play.

Pro Tip: Desire Luxury has a rabbit vibrator model with two bunny ears for clitoral stimulations.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:

For more strapon reviews, please check out this article.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Insertable Length: 5″ (shaft), 4.5″ (wearable bulb)
  • Circumference: 4.25″ (shaft), 4.75″ (wearable bulb)
  • Charging: 150 minutes
  • Output: 1 hour

Pros:

  • The elongated shaft and wearable bulb are designed to pleasure both you and your partner.
  • The realistic head and wavy texture induce extra thrills to the receiver.
  • The three-button wireless remote controller is easy to use.
  • Powerful 12-function motor.
  • The raised base of the shaft stimulates the wearer’s clitoris.
  • An incredible choice for intense strap-on sex for couples.

Cons:

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11. Pipedreams Fetish Fantasy Door Swing: Best For Suspended Sex

Fetish Fantasy Deluxe Door

This over-the-door swing simplified my perception of suspended sex. It was my first sex swing, and I didn’t have to drill holes in the ceiling or buy an entire stand to fill up my then overcrowded bedroom.

I especially like how comfortable the sex swing is – the broad 8″ seat offers a comfy lounger for extended lovemaking sessions. In addition, there are two arm straps and stirrups to secure the submissive partner at all times. I usually use the stirrups to prop my lower body so Tim can have better access, especially during oral sex.

Closeup of the door swings attachment points

You don’t need to be a technician to set it up – just swing it over the door, lock it, and enjoy gravity-defying sex. Thanks to its portable design, we always carry it on our vacations!

And although sex door swings have limited positions because the wall holds your back, this relatively affordable swing churns numerous possibilities, especially when you utilize the straps and stirrups. We use the wall as a decoy to explore new options.

Overall, the best sex couple’s sex swing is Pipedreams Fetish Fantasy Door Swing. It’s perfect for people who want to explore suspended sex and don’t want to break the bank or take up a huge space in the bedroom. In addition, the BDSM tool is comfortable and easy to set up.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:

Want to read more about sex swings? Read this article! And you can find our comprehensive review of this door swing in this article.

  • Material: ABS Plastic, Metal, Nylon, Vinyl
  • Weight Limit: 200 lb.
  • Hooks None

Pros:

  • Easy-to-use door-mounted sex swing.
  • One of the best BDSM accessories.
  • Comfy even when used for extended periods.
  • Comparatively affordable.
  • The stirrups and straps enhance the sub’s comfort.
  • It’s suitable for people with limited bedroom space.
  • Vacationers and sex swing newbies will find it resourceful.

Cons:

  • A solid door is a must.
  • Not the most comfortable – unpadded stirrups.

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12. Hismith Sex Machine

Hismith premium sex machine

The Hismith sex machine is perfect for experienced users looking to go all out. The high-end product is built from solid steel, giving it a shiny, alluring look.

Of course, the size means it’s indiscreet, but the machine makes a statement with its massive power and versatility. And even with a top speed of 240 strokes in a minute, what blew my mind away the most was how easy it was to regulate the penetration angle and stroke speed. Adjusting the height, speed, and stroke length took a few seconds, which I thought was impressive.

The HiSmith remote control

Unlike a few years ago, you can choose to have a remote controller or mobile app with your purchase. The mobile app especially offers extra bells and whistles, including customization options, Hismith global community pattern sharing, and long-distance control.

And the best part about it is there are three different models for you to choose from. And besides the price difference, the models vary in the mode of control and height adjustability.

So, if you’re looking for a sex machine for intense couples play, the Hismith sex machine is worth your consideration. Everything from the ultra-powerful motor to the fully adjustable design and wireless control makes it a perfect choice. It even comes with a free 6″ dildo to get things started as soon as you receive your package.

Check out this guide for more sex machine reviews. And read our complete Hismith review here.

  • Material: Stainless Steel
  • Stroke Length: 1 – 6″
  • Insertable Length: 6
  • Diameter: 1.6″

Pros:

  • Solid and alluring stainless steel construction.
  • Fully adjustable design – height, angle, speed.
  • Multiple control options.
  • Three models to choose from.
  • It comes with a free 6″ dildo and is compatible with numerous attachments.
  • Impressive 240 strokes per minute.

Cons:

  • The sex machine is expensive – ($429-519).
  • It requires assembly.

Update: Seeing the positive response, we went out of our way to negotiate a special deal with Hismith for you!

If you buy the sex machine directly through the Hismith site, you can use a discount code: HM10 to get 10% off + Free Spring Attachment ($30 value)!

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13. Colossus Penis Sleeve

Vixen Creations Vixskin Colossus

Whether you have erectile dysfunction or want to add a few extra inches to intensify your sexual experience, penis sleeves come in handy. Tim rarely wears one, but we have sex with the Colossus penis sleeve every once in a while.

According to him, the textured canal creates a vacuum effect during thrusting, giving a mellow feeling of being blown. I love the Vixen penis sleeve because sex feels better and more fulfilling. The ribbed texture and realistic-looking head tickle the vaginal walls and massage the G-spot.

Closeup of the bottom of Vixskin Colossus

The Colossus features a stretchy ball loop to secure the sleeve even when you’re not fully erect.

So, if you’re looking to add a few inches to your partner’s penis and revitalize penetrative sex, Colossus is an easy-to-wear and secure penis sleeve. The material is waterproof, plush, and comfortable for both the female and male partner. Most importantly, the 7″ circumference adds a hefty chunk of girth and length, making sex more intense.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:

This article has more cock sleeve reviews.

  • Material: Medical-Grade Silicone
  • Insertable Length: 7″
  • Canal Diameter: 1.5″
  • Circumference: 7″

Pros:

  • Super-smooth and realistic-looking penis extender.
  • It’s made from body-safe silicone material.
  • The textured canal massages the wearer during thrusting.
  • A stretchy loop secures the sleeve.
  • It’s available in three different skin tones.

Cons:

  • The sleeve is expensive – $159.99.

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14. Bondage Boutique Under the Bed Restraint System

Bondage Boutique Black Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint

Like the door sex swing, this under-bed restraint system doesn’t need much know-how to get things started – simply stretch and adjust the straps on top of your bed before tucking them between the mattress and box spring.

Besides the ease of setting up, I liked the restraint system because it was a great way to experiment with BDSM play without breaking the bank. And $49.99 for bondage equipment, I think it’s money well spent.

My wrist attached in one of the restraints

Something else I noted was the four padded ankle and wrist cuffs. Not only did we find them comfortable to wear for extended periods, but the Velcro fasteners make it easy and quick to adjust or take them off. And with one partner secured, you can use your hands to tease and pleasure them.

The four straps and connector straps look sturdy, and with those dimensions, it fits any bed – we didn’t have a problem with our king-size bed, so you should be okay (unless you have a wall-to-wall bed).

So, if you’re looking for a quick bondage couple’s bondage equipment, the Bondage Boutique Black Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint system is a good choice. The bondage kit goes under the mattress, has an adjustable design, and even features wrist and ankle cuffs to restrain your partner from all fronts.

Pro Tip: Add a blindfold, ball gag, bondage tape, nipple clamps, or flogger for a kinkier BDSM experience.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:

Check out this article for more BDSM sex toys!

  • Material: Nylon Webbing, Plastic, Metal
  • Wrist/Ankle Cuffs: 4 feet 2 inches
  • Straps (cuff and connector): 4 feet

Pros:

  • Easy to set up under the bed restraint system.
  • The straps are sturdy and durable.
  • Lightly padded cuffs are suitable for extended wear.
  • Velcro fasteners simplify adjusting and taking the cuffs off.
  • The system is fully adjustable.

Cons:

  • It doesn’t come with an accessory – blindfold.

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15. Lelo Personal Moisturizer: Best Lube For Couples

Lelo Personal Moisturizer

The multi-purpose personal moisturizer is ideal for couples. Whether it’s foreplay, sex, or masturbation, it works great. Importantly, it’s water-based, making it suitable for sex toys and condom use – you won’t have to worry about degrading the material or damaging the condom.

I found the lubricant to be smooth and relatively long-lasting. Of course, it’s a water-based lube, and re-applying is the norm, but a dab lasts longer than most other lubes I’ve used before.

Something else I loved about the moisturizer was the elegant-looking chic glass bottle. It has a luxurious look and an easy-to-use pump to simplify the lube application. Excellent design, Lelo!

Overall, Lelo Personal Moisturizer is a great lube for couples. Everything from the water-based formula that’s fragrance-free to the elegant packaging and multi-purpose usage makes it perfect for the job.

  • Lubricant Type: Water-based
  • Volume: 5oz / 150 ml

Pros:

  • A water-based formula – sex toy and condom-friendly.
  • Multi-purpose lubricant is suitable for couples.
  • Elegant packaging is alluring to the eyes.
  • Easy-to-use pump.
  • The lube is fragrance-free.
  • It doesn’t stain the bedsheets as much as oil-based lubes do.

Cons:

  • As with other water-based lubes, it’s thin, and you’ll need a lot.

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16. Clone-A-Willy: A Great Gift!

The content of the box

Clone-A-Willy molding kit is an excellent gift for couples. The rather unique but naughty realistic molding kit allows you to replicate your penis and gift it to your partner so they can always have a piece of you.

The kit contains:

  • Molding tube
  • Algae-based molding powder
  • 2 x silicone mix
  • Single-speed bullet vibe
  • Detailed instructions
  • Stirring stick
  • Thermometer

Clone-A-Willy finished result

The best part about the molding kit is how easy it is to use:

  1. Simply cut the tube to size, mix hot water with the molding powder and pour it into the tube.
  2. Then, insert your erect penis into the tube while holding it tight against the skin until it solidifies.
  3. Mix the two-part silicone in a separate bowl before emptying it into the solidified mold.
  4. Finish by placing the bullet vibe centrally and letting the willy air dry.

Tim and I created his penis together; honestly, it was an exciting bonding moment. Of course, it took longer than expected (for apparent reasons), but we did enjoy the small DIY project. I was surprised at how realistic the clone turned out.

I liked that the DIY molding kit also comes with a single-speed bullet vibrator. It might not be the strongest, but it was a welcome addition.

Overall, the Clone-A-Willy penis molding kit is a great gift idea for couples. Besides making a replica of your penis, the DIY project presents a chance to spice your love life and explore each other’s naughty side.

If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:

You can read our complete Clone-A-Willy review here.

  • Material: High-quality silicone

Pros:

  • Perfect gift choice, especially for long-distance couples.
  • It captures every detail perfectly.
  • The platinum silicone is body-safe and durable.
  • It comes in multiple skin tones.
  • Reasonably priced – $44.99.
  • A great naughty gift for Valentine’s day!

Cons:

  • It dries too quickly (2 minutes) – you might end up messing up.
  • The single-speed bullet vibrator is weak.

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17. Colours Double Pleasures: For Double Penetration

Colours Double Pleasures

Colours Double Pleasure Double-Ended Dildo is a realistically designed sex aid that promises double the fun.

I especially liked the deeply textured shaft with visible pumped-up veins that are hard to miss. It features two bulbous heads, which I thought simplify insertion while making P-spot and G-spot targeting straightforward. The textured shaft especially glides against the vaginal walls, both on the instroke and outstroke. Tim also described them as ‘deeply massaging.’

Besides the impressive flexibility, the dildo is perfect for couples, thanks to the double-ended design. And while you can use it solo for double penetration, the thrill of mutual masturbation is up there with the best sexual experiences I’ve had with Tim.

My only concern was the 1.26″ diameter. It’s ideal for beginners and intermediate users, but the more experienced crowd may find it underwhelming.

Overall, Colours Double Pleasure is perfect for thrill-seeking couples who want to experience double penetration. It’s flexible and textured, and the best part is the affordability – $44.99. It’s totally worth the time.

You can find more of our best double-ended dildo picks in this article.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: 12″
  • Diameter: 1.26″

Pros:

  • Flexible, double-ended design.
  • Perfect for kinky couples.
  • The circumference is ideal for beginners.
  • An impressive 12″ of insertable length.
  • Great value for money.

Cons:

  • It might be too slim for the more experienced dildo users.
  • The contours could be more bulged.

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18. Monogamy Game

Remember when the Truth and Dare game was the ice-breaker at college parties? The monogamy game is a Truth and Dare game on steroids – for couples.

Notably, the game has three levels of play and over 400 ideas, making for an adventurous and exciting way for couples to get their freak on. Roll the dice, pick a card, and act out the particular action. And the best part about it is it’s spontaneous – you don’t know what’ll hit you. It could be passionate, steamy, or intimate – just pick the card and go to work.

Tim and I always play the game, especially when we’re away from the house – we travel with the game.

Besides reigniting sexual tension, the game encourages intimate conversations and allows partners to communicate and learn about their significant other’s sexual fantasies.

So, if you’re looking for an ‘ice-breaker’ type of game, Monogamy Game is the perfect one. With multiple levels of intensity and over 400 ideas, the game is a real treasure for couples.

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19. Bondage Boutique Position Enhancer: A Good Sex Chair

Bondage Boutique Sex Position Enhancer Chair

Having used massive sex chairs from Liberator, I didn’t know just what to expect with this one. The relatively simple design caught me by surprise when I realized how sturdy and practical it was.

Notably, the metal frame is strong and can hold up to 330 lbs (150 kg). The bars are also coated with protective foam for added support, making them very comfortable. Thank you, Bondage Boutique!

I also liked the sex chair straps, and I found them soft to touch and surprisingly elastic. The elasticity  came in handy because it gives the seated partner some bounce, perfect for woman-on-top sex positions.

My only concern is the elastic straps are not padded, meaning they’re not the most comfortable.

Overall, Bondage Boutique Position Enhancer is a good sex chair for couples. Besides a simple and functional design, the chair is padded for extra comfort and features soft, elastic straps. What’s more, the metal frame is easy to set up and dismantle.

You can find more of the best sex chairs in this guide.

  • Material: Metal, Elastic Bands
  • Dimensions: 16.5″ wide x 13″ tall

Pros:

  • Simple yet functional sex chair for couples.
  • Entry-level BDSM chair – perfect for beginners.
  • Solid metal construction.
  • Padded bars for extra comfort.
  • The elastic straps are comfortable.

Cons:

  • The seat is not adjustable, which can be a problem for overly tall people.

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How We Picked the Products

As stressed before, My Sex Toy Guide was formed to bridge the gap and provide helpful and educational information to spice up different peoples’ sex lives. Couples, like a majority of the population, were discriminated against with little, if any, resources tailored for them. Apparently, sex toys were a preserve of the ‘single and lonely,’ and boy could that belief be far from the truth as we know it now.

Lovense Couple Set

For this article, Rachel pre-selected over 50 sex toys for couples, paying attention to categories like:

  • Long-distance relationships
  • Budget-friendliness
  • Sex furniture
  • Public play, among others

After pre-selecting the different sex toys, Rachel distributed them among the team for testing. She also did an in-person review in what would be a 15-day exercise culminating with a comprehensive list of 19 of the best sex toys for couples.

After testing, Rachel collected the team’s review notes, closely running them through hers to identify any similarities to shape the course of further elimination. From the report developed at this stage, 16 sex toys were removed, skimming the number to 34.

Sex toy review sites and forums came in handy, with the team relating other people’s experiences with these couples’ sex toys to filter the number even further. Finally, the team had a final number of 19 of the best sex toys for couples, spread across multiple categories to ensure there was something for everyone.

 


What Is a Couple’s Sex Toy?

A couple’s sex toy is a unique adult toy designed to induce thrill into partnered sex—everything from clitoral vibrators to G-spot stimulators and male masturbators. Unlike solo play toys, they offer a helping hand, making sex more enjoyable. What’s more, most couples’ adult toys emphasize handing the partner control, whether from miles away via a dedicated app or across the room with a wireless remote control or app.

Description how long distance vibrators are working

 


How To Use Couple’s Sex Toys

Using a couple’s sex toy is perceived to be complicated, mainly because everyone has to be on board. Well, it doesn’t have to be – just schedule the playtime, show up, and enjoy the ride.

  1. For long-distance couple’s kits, turn the sex toy on and connect it to the mobile app before sending and accepting an invitation from your partner. Once you set everything up, lube up and take turns controlling each other’s rumbles to simulate realistic sex from miles away. And if the app offers video chatting, hop on and experience the raw feeling of touch through the screen.
  2. If you live together, hand the remote to your partner and let them exert their dominance as you enjoy hands-free orgasms. Besides increasing the speed gradually, have them experiment with edging – withdrawing the rumbles when you’re about to climax in preparation for intense orgasms.
  3. You can also try reversing the roles. Whether it’s around traditional gender roles or personal preferences, switching the roles allows you to experience play in ways you usually wouldn’t. Everything from penetrating or using restraints on a dominant partner to playing with each other’s clothes adds a twist. These slight variations build up to greater intimacy and sexual satisfaction.
  4. So, draw your partner on board, pick up roles to play, use the sex toy on different areas of your partner’s body, and be creative with it. Whether you’re miles away from each other or in the same room, couples’ sex toys are for everyone.

A man holding a lube bottle

Pro Tip: Different body parts can be stimulated differently. Luckily, there’s a sex toy for every area of your body. So, research and pick a model that meets your and your partner’s needs.

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